Whenever a newly married couple begins to talk about having kids I like to point out that kids don’t come with a return policy. They are not like something you buy and later when buyer’s remorse kicks in you can return. I am fairly sure that most people think I’m a little weird, I would if I were them, but I hope it is enough of a reminder that choosing to start a family is not all fun and games. Raising kids is a ton of work and, as you probably already know, anyone can be blessed with a child that has special needs. That’s when the workload multiplies!
Not just another post about sign-language
I have said it before but will say it again, “Sign language is a great choice for any child.” Yes, we chose to begin teaching Treyton signs because of his diagnosis but knowing what I know now I would have taught all of my kids to use signs. Babies are ready to communicate long before they are able to form words with their mouths. The fine motor skills required to shape the lips and tongue in order to create words develop after the larger motor skills needed for signs.
In his book Far From The Tree Andrew Solomon refers to sign-language as “speech set to dance.” Signs are fun. Watching Treyton communicate always makes me smile (except when we finally settle in to watch a movie and he looks up to me and give the signs for “chips” and “drink”). His signs are also somewhat fluid as well, they change and adapt as he grows and learns more about his world. He will also make up his own signs which really seem like a game of charades.
I needed to step back for a minute
This time of year is an extremely busy period for the Arnold house. You may call this spring but we call it “flower-season.” I am in the greenhouse business and we supply garden plants to garden centers throughout the Midwest. By nature this is a seasonal business. This can be a very challenging time of year for me as well as my wife.
In addition to the busy work schedule the rest of life has seemed to be a lot more intense lately not to mention that the entire Ethan Saylor tragedy has been weighing heavily on me. I needed to smile and feel good for a few minutes so I pulled out my phone and looked at a few of the videos of Treyton I had on there. He makes me smile and I think you will too.
Watch the short video below showing Treyton using a few signs. They are a little staged because I rarely have the camera ready when I see something I want to capture so I have to prompt Trey to repeat what he had just said. One of the fun aspects of this is that you really don’t know what he will say when you ask him to repeat himself. For example, he told me he wanted to eat french fries so when I got the camera out and asked him again his first answer was carrots. Carrots? Why was the kid thinking about carrots? I don’t know but look at the life in this kids eyes. I love him and I am thankful for each day I have with him.
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